Roxy Sperry Chatfield
BIRTH
21 May 1802
Connecticut, USA
DEATH
22 May 1864 (aged 62)
Oxford, New Haven County, Connecticut, USA
BURIAL
Saint Peters Episcopal Cemetery
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Daughter of EZRA SPERRY, II & ABIGAIL HEATON CRITTENDEN
aka: ROXA "ROXY" SPERRY

Married: Mar 25, 1827, ENOS CHATFIELD, Bethany, New Haven, Connecticut

Nine children:
1. Enos Beecher CHATFIELD
1828 - 1893
2. Mary Almira CHATFIELD
1829 - 1915
3. Harriet Crittenden CHATFIELD
1832 - 1910
4. Emily C. CHATFIELD
1833 - 1924
5. Charles Smith CHATFIELD
1835 - 1855
6. Alfred Bennett CHATFIELD
1837 - 1864
7. Edward Wales CHATFIELD
1839 - 1910
8. Heber C. CHATFIELD
1843 - 1893
9. Julia CHATFIELD
1845 - 1922

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Letter from Julia (Chatfield) Thomas, Oxford, CT to her brother and sister-in-law, Enos Beecher & Mary Elizabeth (Seymour) Chatfield, Dubuque or Wilton, Iowa:
Oxford, Jun 8, 1864
Dear Brother & Sister
I have often thought but until this late day have neglected to write you the sad and painful intelligence of Mother's Death.

For the past three years she has been gradually fading in strength. Last fall and winter she had a severe cough that weakened her fast. (She then thought herself consumptive.) In February she was taken with the lung fever, and something of the typhoid. She was confined to her room near two months, and then seemed to gain very fast, and was soon around the kitchen quite-smart for her two or three weeks. She then commenced bloating very fast.

We sent again for Dr. Johnson and he then called it dropsy, and a very difficult case. It was Monday morn when Dr. came, and the next Saturday night we sent for him again, and in so short a time she was pressed so full with water, that he was obliged to draw it off by means of two incisions made in her bowels. Dr. drew only about three quarts, then it would not run, it seemed thick and clogged the tube, and he was obliged to give up and left the incisions (which were about the size of a small nail head) open. Some three quarts drained through each day for ten days, then it ceased discharging and she filled again but would not have another operation performed. If she had, it would done no good, only to as she said, "lengthen her suffering a few days longer".

It was just two weeks from the Saturday night she was tapped until she died, which was May 21st. For the last two weeks she was not conscious of much that was passing, we were obliged to give stupefying things for she suffered great pain. One of her limbs for a week before her last, burst and over one or two cups of water a day. That limb was mortified three or four days before she died.

She died very easy without a struggle for the last twelve hours she lay asleep. It was impossible for us to rouse her enough to speak or notice anything and in that way she breathed her last.

The funeral was Monday after, she was carried in the church and sermon preached but the coffin could not be open there was quite a disappointment to many who wanted to see her. (She had purged badly).

Five only of the nine of her children were near to follow her remains to their resting place. Many times she expressed a wish that she might see all her children that were far away once more but that was not to be.

We have her ambro type from which we are going to have some photographs taken to send to the absent ones. I think they will be done so I can send one in my next to you.

Two weeks before the death of mother, Emily, was called back to New Haven to the death bed of Della. One week before she left her at her Father Sperry's, to all appearances well as usual. Two days after she was taken with diphtheria, was sick only four days. Emily has had a double affliction, she is to stay with us this summer, and expects Lucius in the fall, her little boy is seven months and is a great deal of company for her and us both.

We will send you a register with the two deaths in. I presume you have not seen one in quite a while, Heber is not home, works for Hat's, (maybe a reference to Harriet's) husband this year in the butchering business.

Wales helps father on the farm. There now is only four of our own family, something unusual for us.

I shall expect to hear from you soon.
Family sends love.
Yours in affection and sympathy
Julie
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Note: This letter states that Roxy died on May 21st. Her headstone and Connecticut death records reflect her death as May 22.
Source of letter: Cheryl (Chatfield) Thompson

Family Members
Parents


Ezra Sperry
1767–1838





Abigail Heaton Crittenden Sperry
1770–1849



Spouse

Enos Chatfield
1797–1869 (m. 1827)



Children

Enos Chatfield
1828–1893




Mary Almira Chatfield Davis
1829–1915




Harriet Crittenden Chatfield Warner
1831–1910




Emily C. Chatfield Sperry
1833–1924




Charles Smith Chatfield
1835–1855




Alfred Bennett Chatfield
1837–1864




Edward Wales Chatfield
1839–1910




Heber C. Chatfield
1843–1893




Julia Chatfield Thomas
1845–1922



Flowers

So much suffering...Rest in Peace wife of 1st cousin 5x removed